Keeping the communication line open for improved marriages

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In any relationship, communication is key. Without it, individuals won’t have the means to communicate how they feel towards the people dear to them, and what they want and need from them. To help a marriage weather the storms of life, the communication line must be open at all times.


One’s partner has the right to know whatever’s going on with their significant other. Phrases that begin with “You never” or “You always” carry an accusing tone which may not be pleasant for a partner to hear. It’s best to express feelings using these phrases so as to get the point clear without sounding like and actually being an accuser. While one’s feelings matter and should be considered by the other, not all of them should be said, especially if it won’t be helpful for the relationship. Speak words that are good and true, and veer away from accusations and excuses.


Maintaining an attitude of gratitude can transform a relationship for the better. Simple deeds like showing appreciation for the little things can solidify marriages. Clearly expressing needs and wants can prevent arguments that can quickly heat up into a fight.

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Writing a love note is a sweet and simple act to show the other that they are loved and appreciated. Going beyond plain “I love you” remarks and using character-quality language can get appreciation straight to one’s heart. Every couple has their own way of showing love, respect, gratitude, and appreciation towards one another. It’s just a matter of being consistent.


Jonah Engler Silberman is a husband and father from Brooklyn, New York. He practices mindfulness to be present for all the important moments and give his best to the people around him. For more information about Jonah Engler Silberman, visit this page.